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Baluchi Laj, Baluchi Mehr

Baluchi Laj, Baluchi Mehr sometimes becomes very complicated to deal with. I mean so fragile and so delicate these two words and what they signify,
are.. in Baluch society ..that either you , as a matter of dealing with Baluchs, will have to be totally humble with, stay obedient to, stand by (Laj and Mehr)or.. or.. you will have to take the risk of hurting the easily-hurting sensibilities of the Baluchs. These sensibilities of Baluchs and these fragile values are as if.. your hands are overtaken in veritable thin and fine threads of twisted fibre, which if you deal with concretely and a bit harshly might cause the total break down of the relation with. To be a friend of a Baluch is tantamount to dealing with sensitive creatures for whom Laaj and Mehr are the top most concern. Perhaps.. Trying not to understand these values of Laj and Mehr and these sensibilities are the very reason for political instability of the Baluch society that the political forces fail to understand completely. To rule Baluchs is to rule fragile creatures of acute sensibilities. To deal with Baluch is to deal with the sensitive creatures of emotions that can't at any cost tolerate harshness of any kind.


What Baluch & his Baluchi is except its very obvious values of Laj and Mehr?



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